You might emphasize a lot on the foreplay acts to build your mood for sex, but certain things that you may do after sex can ruin everything. You may not realize this but there are several things, done quite unintentionally, would not be appreciated by your partner, especially after you have enjoyed an intense sexual experience. These would not only kill the pleasure that you have just enjoyed but would also create problems for your future intimate encounters. Here are 5 important things that must be avoided after having sex.
1.DON’T FALL ASLEEP QUICKLY: This would be the last thing you would expect from your partner – to go to sleep as soon as you are over with sex. This is a very common occurrence. It may across as that you were waiting for the sex to get over and wanted to just catch up on your sleep. It’s a common tendency among men; whereas women feel more charged up after having sex and want to enjoy some more intimacy. No matter what’s the case, you must not end your lovemaking on such a boring note and try to keep the intimate mood for a bit more.
2.DON’T RUSH TO THE WASHROOM: Most people feel the urge to clean up immediately after having a round of sex, this is not a good idea. This can make your partner feel that you felt gross or unclean about the whole sexual performance. So be a little patient and remain calm and wait for a few moments before you get off the bed and move to the washroom to clean up or take a shower.
3.DON’T PUT ON OUR CLOTHES IMMEDIATELY: While undressing work towards arousing your partner for sex, putting on your clothes at once after sex can have the totally opposite effect. By doing this, you may give wrong signals to your partner that you aren’t too comfortable with your body or you are just waiting to put on your clothes and come out of the sexual mood. Wait a bit and let your partner feel your warmth for a few more moments before you get dressed in your clothes.
4.DON’T CRITICIZE YOUR PARTNER’S PERFORMANCE: There would be times when you won’t have liked something that your partner did in bed. But criticizing your partner’s bedroom performance would only discourage them and spoil your sex life. Also, it would instill doubts in their mind about their sexual performance, which would reflect the next time you get intimate. A good way is to look for the apt time to let them know diplomatically about things you didn’t enjoy.
5.DON’T THANK EACH OTHER FOR HAVING SEX: It’s high time you stop treating sex like an obligation or a duty performed for your partner. By doing this, you could insult your partner; instead talk about how pleasurable the intimate session was for you, this is much more encouraging for your partner than just saying “Thanks”.
These listed acts can kill your passion, mood and chances of getting comfortably intimate with each other. If you can’t understand how your partner would feel in any of these cases, put yourself in their shoes and you will realize how putting off these acts can be. You would certainly feel the hurt if someone treated you like this or did these things after having sex with you. So avoid them after your next intimate session and I can guarantee that your partner will appreciate it.
What other bad after sex habits do you think should make this list?. Let me know by commenting below.