5 Reasons Why Erectile Dysfunction is a Relationship Killer

Having inhibitions to talk about your sexual problems often act as slow poison that ruins a relation and gradually kills it. Most couples will experience some kind of difficulty in their sexual life related to sex positions, premature ejaculation, unsatisfactory orgasm, erection troubles, performance anxiety etc. Unfortunately, not many couples will not pay heed to come out of their shell and discuss these concerns with an expert who can guide them, give solutions to these problems, so that they can  strengthen their relationship.

Of all the sexual problems, erectile dysfunction is the most common one that men come across. Not really a disease, but medically speaking, erectile dysfunction is a state where the male partner is unable to keep and maintain his erection for a desired period of time and loses it in between the act of intercourse, thus failing to satisfy his partner.

Also, it’s noteworthy to mention that considering the fast changing social scenario, even the Indian law has gone to an extent of setting out new standards for man-woman relations. Under this, the Honorable Supreme Court of India March 21, 2006, ruled that a wife can duly seek divorce on grounds of a husband’s sexual incapacity and his failure to consummate the marriage due to any such physical handicap.

Erectile dysfunction can be attributed to various reasons like diabetes, age factor, medical condition, side effects of illicit drugs, stress, performance anxiety, cardiac problems, psychological factors etc, but if couples don’t feel comfortable talking about it and finding a solution, it will only  harm  their relationship.

Though many men will try local medicines (read Viagra or their generic version ) to enlarge their organ size and gain perfect erection but they would never bother to trace the symptoms behind their problem, which can be physical and or psychological. Therefore, erectile dysfunction tends to act as a deadly relationship wrecker, which not only affects the male partner but also irks the female partner leaving her dissatisfied, unhappy and betrayed each time the couples indulge in an intimate session.

Here are 5  reasons  why Erectile Dysfunction can come in way of your marital bliss. So make sure before it starts creeping in slowly in your love paradise and spoils the fun, you consult a specialist who can suggest you best possible solutions.

1. The fact that you fail to get a perfect erection for a fulfilling sex experience hurts your self-esteem and adversely affects your confidence level. This puts you in a mental-physical dilemma, which gets reflected in your routine actions and the way you behave with your partner.

2. You also start sulking with a sense of embarrassment and humiliation, as you start to wonder about what your partner thinks of your sexual performance . This this lack of communication between you and your partner may divert your marriage towards the path of separation.

3. While performing in bed, the guilt of not satisfying your partner makes you feel imperfect and hence you cannot connect with her, neither sexually nor emotionally. The process of building a comfort zone with your partner gets completely ruined as ED keeps you under fear all the time and holds you back from concentrating making love.

4. The recurring instances where you are unable to overcome this problem of ED can make you completely disinterested in the act of sex. Each time you try to perform an intercourse, you end up landing in a conflict with your disturbed mental state and thus the entire passion gets killed. And remember your partner will not like making love to a boring  partner.

5. Accepting the fact that you suffer from a sexual difficulty makes you feel weak from inside, leaves you frustrated and at times even becomes the reason behind your workplace anxieties. And  that stress at workplace will have a direct impact on your relationship.

Having said it all, it’s for all men out there to realise that it’s the need of the hour for them to start taking these sexual problems seriously. In case you face any difficulty in your sex life,  do not hesitate in consulting an expert to find out the best possible solution. After all, nobody would want to let their marriage go for a toss over such issues.

Even your family members would  want to see you living a happy and a contented married life. So, ensure that you do every possible thing to avoid any chances of these sexual issues coming in way of your relationship. It’s rightly said that a ‘stitch in time saves nine’, thus I suggest that before this small sexual matter takes the form of a huge problem and creeps in your sexual paradise, it’s better to discuss it with your doctor and seek their help. Don’t forget the key to a happy married life is to have a contented and pleasing relationship with your wife – both emotionally and sexually.