Often times in relationships we find ourselves pointing the finger and blaming our spouses for what goes wrong. This is always so much easier than realizing admitting the role we have played in a failing relationship.
Other times, we blame our spouse without even realizing what we are doing. It can be something as little as saying, “if you were normal”. We have to stop focusing on blaming the other person so much and focus on the other underlying issues of the real problems.
Identifying these issues make it easier to solve the problems than blaming one another will. Communication and understanding is key.
When you blame each other it contributes to a loss of intimacy between the two. We often sometimes say things which may make our significant other feel belittled, even though that is not our intention and the consequences will be seen in your sex life as well.
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Is Blame Shutting Down Your Sex Lilfe?