After years of being with a partner, one area that tends to suffer in a couple’s relationship is their sex life. Rather than allow this terrible trend to happen in your relationship, there are numerous tricks and activities you can try to spice up your sex life. These will help you and your partner feel as if it is your first time again and create a sense of anticipation which has been missing from your relationship.
One problem with being with the same romantic partner for years is much of the spontaneity is taken out of sex. To bring some excitement back in this part of your relationship try changing things up in the bedroom or the way you dress around the house.
Here are some tips on how you can do that.
Also remember the beginning of your relationship with your partner to think about what made your sex life exciting and plan out your next sexual activity.
Talk to each other about your fantasies and be open to trying them out, but be respectful and understanding of your partner’s wishes and don’t force them to do something they don’t want to do.
In today’s hectic pace of life it is very important to take out time for your sex life, this means that you schedule a specific day and time to indulge in intimacy with your partner, this may same a little awkward in the beginning but you both will soon start to look forward to this time with a lot of anticipation.
Intimacy is not just about sex but also about what leads up to it. Go out for quiet intimate dinner’s or create the same ambiance at home, this will set up the stage for what comes next in the bedroom. Complement your partner and be appreciative of all that she does for you.
This appreciation and the intimate ambiance you create will put you both in a much happier place of mind and translate in a much more satisfying and steamier romp in bed.
These tips take time, effort and patience but it will be well worth it as it will bring exhilaration back to your sex life.